In my last blog, Inside FemDom Mistress Demi’s World of Debauchery, I briefly shared some of my interests. Here, I will expand more into my love of erotic humiliation. As a dominant, the allure of sensual humiliation lies in the intoxicating power it affords me—the power to push boundaries, challenge inhibitions, and guide my submissive on a journey of self-discovery and surrender. It’s a delicate balance of control and compassion. Where every word spoken and every action taken is carefully calculated to elicit the desired response.

What is Sensual Humiliation?

Sensual Humiliation is defined as consensual psychological humiliation performed in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. This can be for either the person being humiliated and demeaned or the person humiliating, or both.

When you are humiliated sensually, I will strip away layers of societal conditioning and tap into the raw, primal desires that lie dormant within you. Whether it’s through verbal degradation, playful teasing, or subtle acts of dominance; the thrill of seeing my submissive squirm with anticipation and arousal is unparalleled.

The key word there being consensual. A legitimate dominant would never put their submissive at risk. It is always important to have a safe word before play and to know each others boundaries. This is a very big reason why I suggest an initial phone session prior to play. If you call me and tell me that you’re horny and you “like it all”, well…you may be in for a surprise. 😉 More on that in a later blog.

Why is Sensual Humiliation Such a Turn-On?

Why is sensual humiliation such a turn-on? Because it’s not about inflicting pain or causing harm, but rather creating a safe space where you can explore the depths of your desires and find liberation in surrendering to my will.

For me, sensual humiliation is such a turn-on because I love the control and power that I wield over you. Knowing that I can bend, twist, and mold you at my pleasure. Seeing the dominance that my female sensuality holds over you through your eagerness to please me. Even if the consequence of pleasing me humiliates you, you don’t question me, you just obey.

In the end, the bond forged through sensual humiliation is one of profound trust and intimacy, where both you and I are free to express our truest selves without fear or judgment.

Types of Sensual Humiliation

There are many, many types of sensual humiliation. I have listed just a handful below. How do you see yourself becoming my sensual humiliation slut, is it listed here? If not, don’t fret. There are many ways to be erotically humiliated!

Small Penis Humiliation

Some people call it small penis humiliation, I call it being honest. Unfortunately, society has lied to men and led them to believe that the average cock size is something around 5 inches. That is laughable. Absolutely NO ONE goes to the sex store and asks for a pathetic five inch dildo!!! That should tell you something.

I don’t know who decided it was ok to tell mediocre men with tiny dicks that they were average but it has been the downfall of society. It has led to incompetent men thinking that they hold value. And it has sadly led millions of women to be socially conditioned to accept this genetic mutation as normal. Not to mention, how in the fuck can anyone orgasm from five measly inches?!

There are too many tiny dicked losers walking around that truly believe they have what it takes to please a woman. As a size queen, it is my mission in life to correct this. 9 inches is the absolute smallest that I will entertain. A 9 inch cock is average, deal with it losers.

Pegging

I have a confession, I have never understood the fascination that men have with anal sex and the obsession that they have with their dicks. That was until I purchased my first strap-on. Unfortunately, it was rather small, only 7 inches. But, as soon as I slipped into it, I was hooked. It was that first experience with pegging that I realized that I not only enjoyed fucking with a strap-on, but I enjoyed pegging humiliation as well!

I immediately began slapping my cock across my partners ass cheeks before flipping him over and driving my cock inside him. I told him to lift his legs up in the air so that I could fuck him. He quickly obeyed. I lost all control as I pounded my cock inside his tight asshole while I whispered in his ear, “be a good bitch and take my cock.”

CFNM

Women are constantly objectified for our bodies. I love to turn the tables with CFNM humiliation!

Imagine being commanded to strip down completely naked while serving my girlfriends and I mimosas during brunch. You find yourself in a room of dominant women that you find attractive. Humiliated because I have demanded that you to take off all of your clothing. Emasculated by being reduced to being our servant. Embarrassed knowing that we will absolutely be objectifying you, judging the size (or lack thereof) of your package. Frustrated because no matter how hard you try, you cannot get rid of that erection.

Becoming My Sensual Humiliation Slut

There are so many avenues for you to take on your journey to becoming my sensual humiliation slut. These are just a few examples. Luckily for you, I will share even more examples with you in my next blog!

I know the anticipation will be driving you absolutely crazy. In the meantime, you know where to find me.

Keeping you under my spell and craving more until next time,

Your Sensual Cocktease Mistress Demi