It’s no secret that I love to control your cocks and I absofuckinglutely love to control your orgasms. So naturally, long distance sex toys just make sense, right? There’s something undeniably exhilarating about being able to control a partner’s pleasure from afar, watching them squirm and moan with delight as I manipulate their toy with the touch of a button. I absolutely love dominating your long distance sex toys and there are several benefits to incorporating app-controlled sex toys into our long distance domination sessions! As if you needed any other reasons, of course. Pleasing me should be the only reason needed.

My experience with interactive sex toys was pretty limited until a few years ago. The first time I ever used an app controlled sex toy was on my subbie, B. You may remember him from a previous blog, Finding the Perfect Mistress. B moved out of the country for work and we needed to find unique ways to play, this was perfect!

The Thrill of Control

Over the years, I had used app controlled sex toys with a few playmates who travel frequently. But an unexpected phone call to my cock control line last April is what really sparked this new obsession of mine. He had just purchased an XS Hush from Lovense and was eager to try it out. Unfortunately, the XS was well…too small so we sized up. In hindsight, I should have known that he’d be an ass slut but at the time he was adamant that he was not. *He totally fucking is!
Before that first phone call ended he had scheduled another call with me for the following week and ordered a couple other Lovense toys. He loves to stroke his my cock and really loves teasing his frenulum, the sensitive spot on the underside of the tip of your cock. So, I recommended he try the Gush.

We definitely sized up to the 1.5 inch Hush. He was interested in anal play but thought 1.5 inches was the biggest he would ever go. *It wasn’t. So I suggested the Diamo. It is an amazing alternative for prostate stimulation without penetrating your ass. I *highly* recommend the Diamo because there’s so much unnecessary stigma surrounding anal play and for anyone with a prostate, you’re missing out. I totally get it if anal isn’t your thing! But, prostate milking is absolutely something that you will want to experience at least once in your life!

Controlling Your Toys and Your Pleasure

I love to be in control. There’s a thrill and rush of exhilaration in knowing that I hold the reins. That I will dictate the pace and intensity of your pleasure. With long distance sex toys, I exercise this control effortlessly using an app on my phone.

I love watching you writhe and tremble with anticipation as I tease and torment you. Bringing you right where I want you before switching it all up on you and leading you on an exhilarating rollercoaster ride of carnal explorations.

This particular person enjoyed our Lovense sessions SO much that he went on to purchase several long distance sex toys, BDSM gear, and more for our sessions. Read what he had to say about his experience with me controlling his toys.

It’s hard to believe that it’s almost been a year since I first had the random opportunity to talk to Demi after calling into LDW one horny evening and I have been obsessed ever since. Demi just has the most innocent style that draws you in; but, you quickly find out just how naughty she can be and that’s what makes her so special. We do so many fun and creative things together, and every call is unique; however, my FAVORITE thing to do with Goddess Demi is when she completely controls *her* Lovense toy collection which has grown (at her direction) to include 3 different sized Hushes, a Diamo, 2 Gushes, the Gravity, an Edge and a Ridge. Playtime has ranged from an absolute wrecking with the Gravity (including being both Demi’d and Becky’d simultaneously with this toy on a call)….to sensual stroking with a Gush……to deep prostate exploration with the Ridge…..to my FAVORITE….complete sensory overload with Demi simultaneously and expertly manipulating an inserted Hush, the Diamo teasing *her” balls and taint and the new pulsating Gush. Demi’s ability to masterfully control all 3 toys, each operating with a different pattern, just creates the biggest 💦💦💦💦💦 ever!!! The way the Diamo properly lifts and presents everything “down there” fully exposed for Demi’s maximum use of the Hush and Gush is just hot AF. Of course, Goddess Demi always has me clean-up my mess, which I happily do. Mmmmm, fuck yeah!!!

Power Dynamics Are In Full Play

Using bluetooth sex toys is a delicious power dynamic, a dynamic that adds an extra layer of excitement to our online FemDom escapades. After being in the driver’s seat so many times, I recently had the opportunity to sit in the passenger seat when I joined Ms Constance in a session with one of her callers. I was beyond excited when they invited me to join them for a session!! Having the opportunity to see Ms Constance work her magic was such a fun experience. The power dynamics between her and her caller were on full display, just read what he has to say about his experience with the Max 2 by Lovense.

I enjoy being in the Max2 and having someone else control it, especially long-distance over the phone, because you don’t know when the vibrations and/or contractions will occur, how intense they will be, or how long it will last. You are totally at the mercy of the person with the power of the remote control. Being edged with the Max2 is great, but it does take great communication between the person wearing it and the person with the remote control which can be developed with some practice, and is particularly needed if the two people cannot see each other.

Deeper Communication

Long Distance Domination requires strong communication skills. Anticipating the needs of my submissive using not only their words but their tone and even word choice is a skill that I am constantly honing. Like the caller stated above, “it does take great communication between the person wearing it and the person with the remote control which can be developed with some practice, and is particularly needed if the two people cannot see each other.”

With this next person, we have used several of the Hush’s, the mini sex machine, the Ferri, and the Domi together. I personally love that Lovense long distance sex toys allow us to sync our toys together. They are perfect for mutual masturbation sessions!

I love the Hush, well I should say all of the Hush’s I have. They have sized from very small to BIG so a novice to expert will find something to fill them right. When the vibrations are controlled by Demi while on a call, she can hear and know how to tease and edge you for a quite a while, eventually leading to a mind blowing orgasm (if you’re lucky enough to have earned that). The Ferri is ok, it’s not very strong though, on it’s own it’s kinda mediocre. If it was being used as like out and about and someone was teasing, it’s quiet enough to be discreet and oh you will feel it, but it’s no Domi in strength.

The Intimacy of Distance

You might think that our physical distance would make it harder to create a close connection. But, I find that long distance sex toys actually enhance our connection and intimacy. I can focus on your reactions, your responses, and your desires without the distractions. It’s almost as if the distance allows us to tap into a deeper level of connection. A connection that’s fueled by our mutual desire for pleasure through power exchange.

I popped this sissy sluts cherry by controlling the first of her interactive sex toys. Using my Mission 2, I was able to control her Gravity and really fuck her sluthole! The Mission 2 acts as a remote and a toy. The connected toy can feel every single thing that I do with my Mission 2, this really enhances the experience that transcends the physical distance.

As a submissive Sissy Slut, there is no feeling on earth like being dominated by an intelligent, powerful, SUPER HOT Domme!!!!! Goddess Demi is all of these and so much more.💘 Upon her recommendation, I recently purchased the Lovense Gravity. Since then our bond has grown exponentially stronger. Our dates take place over the phone, therefore it is absolutely essential that she keep a firm, yet loving grip over her obedient Sissy! Through the Lovense App, Goddess Demi can control the Gravity in both the vibrating and thrusting functions to bring this pathetic, locked Sissy to her knees and keep her absolutely BEGGING for more🍆🍆🍆

The Lovense Gravity is the perfect toy for those naughty little Sissies who enjoy having a powerful Domme teach them who exactly is boss! And thanks to the Lovense App, these lessons in discipline can be administered from anywhere in the country…… YAY🥰

Long Distance Sex Toys Provide for Sultry and Intense Sessions

The sensual seduction is elevated with the ability to influence not just the mind, but the body as well. The control they afford allows for a delicious blend of teasing and torment—a little taste of what’s to come. Of course, the anticipation remains the ultimate aphrodisiac.

By controlling interactive sex toys, I can seduce my partners into a frenzy of desire. Leaving them yearning for the touch that only I can provide. Once you have had a taste of my control over you and your toys, you will crave more.

This subbie loves the control that I hold over his my cock so much that he quickly acquired his collection of toys within just a couple weeks. So far we have used the Hush, Ridge, Gravity, Gush, Max 2, and Solace.

I just love when I am lucky enough to have a playful session with Goddess Demi where she controls my Lovense toys! It’s so incredible!

Goddess Demi has the amazing ability to create such wonderful feelings in me that always carry me deep into subspace! The way she brings each toy into the scene, expertly combining them, varying the tempo and intensity with my every moan makes it feel like she is right there in the room with me!

By using the toys, I can directly feel her touch and Goddess Demi can feel the effect of that touch on me.

I can feel the excitement building in us both as her teasing voice and the vibrations of the toys under her control take me deeper. Goddess Demi feeding off of my submission, increasing her feelings of control and bringing the energy to yet another level, deepening my submission even more! This spiral continues until she makes me utterly and totally hers to be used only for her pleasure. The feeling of power exchange is exhilarating!

Every session with Goddess Demi is always incredible but I would highly encourage everyone to invest in toys that give her the direct control over your pleasure that you crave! It really takes the energy to another level!

I have six Lovense toys for Goddess Demi to play with during our sessions. Three anal toys; the Hush, the Ridge and the Gravity and three toys that she uses to tease her cock; the Gush, the Max 2 and the Solace.

Although each session is unique Goddess Demi usually starts out with the Hush and the Gush and ends with the Solace and the Gravity!

The Solace is my favorite and when she combines it with the Gravity, I feel completely owned by her! With the Solace having the capability of over 200 strokes per minute, Goddess Demi could take me over the edge in an instant but she just loves to tease and torment!

When she asks me to get the Solace I am already in such a state of arousal that I worry about going over the edge just putting her cock into the sleeve! It feels so good as Goddess Demi takes control, slowly adjusting the pace to take me on an incredible roller coaster ride of intense pleasure! Taking me to the edge and keeping me there until she decides to bring me slowly down for a brief moment before taking me right back and pushing me further and deeper into subspace! I can feel her delight as she plays with my mind and her cock and that only increases my pleasure!

Long distance sex toys make sooo much sense, don’t they? If you haven’t used one during a session, give it a try. Obviously, I love to control your sex toys, but I also love to use them on myself. mmmm, sexy thought, huh? 😏 I will share my favorite app controlled sex toys in a future blog! Until then, stay sexy! 😘

Keeping you entranced and craving more until next time,

Your Sensual Cocktease Goddess Demi

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